Together with a bunch of people

Today, I was thinking, what a ultimate success would be looks like in the end? or what kind of life can be considered as real success?

Case 1. with tons of money, live in a huge mansion, hide deep inside of forest. don’t have to be bothered to deal with anyone, drive luxury cars, go have vacations as want. buy anything wanted.

Case 2. work together with a bunch of people, lead a team, you are fighting hard to build something, solve problems. making profit. you need to deal with law cases, employee attrition. handle family trivia.

Two cases, the major difference here is, in case 1, don’t need to deal with the individual interaction. in case 2, lots of people interactions.

Which one to choose?

Recalled my life before getting married, before having children. I lived a free life, had a good job, own my house, working on something I like, and play video game whenever I like…

And now. I have to take care children, wash them, feed them, play with them. besides children, I also need to pay attention to other family members, are they happy? are they fatigue? are they complaining? and take action to solve any potential family conflictions.

If you, my dear reader, are still single and haven’t have kids yet. you may think my current life as hell. But on the opposite, I am much more prefer current life compare with the one before getting married.